Anyway, there are lots of recipes out there, but here's what I did:
1/4 c. butter, melted
1 c. graham wafer crumbs
1 c. coconut
1 c. chocolate chips
1 c. pecans, chopped
1 can condensed milk
Pour butter into an 8x8" pan (I used a glass pie dish.) Layer the remaining ingredients in order. Bake at 325 F for 30-40 minutes.
Don't make this if you have no willpower and work at home like I do. It will be gone within 24 hours, and so will your dignity.